Hey guys! This is me Casey, one of the world's top female dating expert for men. How many times have you been with a girl that you like and you've decided not to pursue her or not to make a move, based on the assumption that you're just not her type? For some reason you think or you feel that she's giving some sort of a signal that you are physically not her type. Honestly ask yourself now how many times that has happened.
Now of course all our scouts just like you guys have a set type; what we look for physically and in terms of their characteristics. However every single girl has dated, slept with, had a boyfriend who has not fit that set type at all. What she initially goes for does not necessarily mean that's what she's going to end up with.
Whenever you feel this, whenever you're talking to a girl and for some reason you feel that you're not her type, let this come into your head ”Game On”. This sentence is so empowering, just very simple ”Game On” and this is because game will out-match type every single time, and game is much stronger than what the girl's initial type is. If a girl shows you lack of initial interest, she's not immediately attracted to you; instantly attracted to you as which sometimes happens. What is your reaction? Do you do what most guys do?
Most guys real quick; most guys will give up and what they'll do is they'll find excuses in order to keep that ego intact, so they'll say things often such as; she's only into white guys, she's only into black guys, she's only into rich guys, she's only into older men, she's only into younger guys, she's a lesbian or anything. You'll find an excuse often to say this is her type and I don't fit into that, so that's okay, that's fine, but the problem with this is not just only do you not get the girl that you want because you've given up and you've decided that she goes for a guy that looks nothing like you or has a social status to you or has a different job or who is richer than you or shorter than you or taller than you or different color to you. And also these kinds of excuses keep you in your comfort zone, this stops you from perfecting your game, these stop you from perfecting your technique.
You might be saying to this, if I'm not a girl's type, why should I bother, why do I need to prove myself to her, that's exactly how a guy that has no game thinks. Most guys will think that they need to somehow prove themselves if they're not the girl's initial type. However if you have game, if you have skill, if you have technique, you'll realize that she's going to have to prove herself to you, that's how it works, that's the difference, this is how the guys on my team; the pick-up coaches on my team are looking at the situation, they don't look at it as they need to prove themselves, they have to somehow be that girl's type, they have to be in line with her requirements, they switch her around. She has to prove herself to them, it's about game, and it’s not about type.
There's something else you have to remember here; women are usually not attracted to a guy. Most women do not experience love at first sight, they might claim that was the situation, but they are just romanticizing what really happened. The truth is most girls meet a guy and they think he's okay, nothing special and suddenly something starts changing in the interaction. It could be a slow bother, it could take maybe a few days, but it usually will happen within the first hour or so. Instant attraction is extremely rare and when it does happen and it has happened to me, it fizzles out very quickly, because when you meet someone you're instantly attracted to them because they happen to be exactly your type, the problem with that is that you build them up and you expect so much from them that anything that they do that is not congruent or not in line with this idea you have of them, it's going to start sabotaging the little fantasy you've got going on there about them.
Instant attraction very rarely happens, when it does, it doesn't mean that you're going to have guaranteed success but go either and this is why all my courses; my boot camp, my 7 day courses; we never teach guys how to be a particular type. Guys who come to me, I don't teach them how to be exactly my type. I want to share something with you, I have a type, I go for a certain type of look and most of my boyfriends haven't actually ended up looking like that set type that I have in my head. In terms of characteristics I always say that I go for very intelligent men. I like men to have strong political views, I like men to be well educated and yet I've ended up with guys that I've been so attracted to that were so stupid they could barely spell their own name. This happens all the time, so many girls will go out with an ideal set type in their mind and end up going with a guy who is nothing like that and this is because these guys have game, they have brilliance.
This is what I do, I breakdown what those naturals did, because they were all naturals, they all had game, I break it down and I pause on this step by step format, so I never try and make a guy become my type, it's impossible; you can't be everybody's type and have a think for a moment yourself; how many times have you met a girl and she’s been good looking, she's fitted the requirements of what you're looking for in terms of looks with a girl? And she's a nice person honestly, but you're not really attracted to her and there's a girl that you know who is not the most beautiful girl, she has unfortunately got habits or characteristics that are definitely not on your list of what you consider to be attracted, but yet you've been really attracted to her. This girl has game, you'll put it down to having sexy, having a great personality, having energy, chemistry, but the truth is she has game; that's all it is. Game will out-match type every single time, so what I do is I teach guys how not to be a girl's type; impossible, I teach them how to perfect their game.
There's one last thing I want you to remember; when a woman does end up with a guy who is not her type, the attraction is always more intensive, it's always stronger. We love to get together and say, but he's not just my type, I don't know what I'm doing with this guy, I never go for guys like this, because then we now start to romanticize and say it must be chemistry, it's just meant to be. We'll come up with all these excuses to actually explain why we're so attracted to this guy, we won't really be able to; so instead we just use romantic excuses to why we're so attracted to him.
Remember guys; next time this happens, I want you to always think ”game on”, if there is any point where you think she might like taller guys than you, she likes richer guys, it doesn't matter, I too have a type and how many times have I gone out with my type? A few times, but I've gone out with lots of guys who are not my type and so have millions and millions of girls out there. Whenever you think she likes a richer guy initially or taller guys or a younger guy or older guy, I want you to not give up and I just want this line to come in your head ”Game On”. Guys if you want to find out how to perfect your game without changing who you are, you want to have game, you want to have techniques that can grow with your own personality; check out my Ultimate DVD in Seduction. I am sharing with you the secrets that women want you to know, why? Because with the insights, techniques, methods and skills that I am handing you in a step by step and detailed format, you will be attracting women into your bed whom you initially thought would never sleep with you.
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